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redundant
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Turkey
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Posted - 10/14/2008 :  12:42:56  Show Profile  Visit redundant's Homepage  Reply with Quote
OR: How I Convinced My Wife To Join The Band

In a few threads over the past year I�ve mentioned my inability to find a (reliable) bass player. Either as an act desperation or genius, I�ve been working on the idea of bringing my wife into the band. Not that she�s some absolute beginner � she�s actually a better musician than me & works as a music teacher - it�s just that she�s not a rocker. But over the past few months I�ve introduced the idea to her, as part of my Plan B. (Plan A was keeping my old drummer, who has been busy over the summer getting married & setting up house, and his cousin on bass; Plan B was working with a new drummer here at school who has been asking me for awhile to do something; Plan AB is� eh, you work it out).

Anyway, it recently became clear that the cousin was out, & my old drummer was reluctant to get to work without a bassist, so my wife received a crash course � 4 songs in 5 days � on an instrument she had never picked up before (even if my Mustang bass has been in the house since the day we married nine years ago). As a trained classical guitarist, she quickly got the idea of playing bass with her fingers, though she is useless with a pick.

At the very least, I�ve know I�ve now got someone in the band I can rely on to try their best. Better yet, I get to sleep with my bass player...

Any other happy / horror stories of playing music with your partner?

Fabius
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Posted - 10/14/2008 :  13:08:35  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Almost similar:

my wife is the director of my musical companion: she's the boss in our home, but I'm the boss in the companion and it's a perfect misture.

She substituted the old director that leaves at two months of the debucts (not quite professional indeed) and I didn't know to have a great director inside my family until last april: she rewrote the story (adapted by the original movie), treated with actors and actress (and singers) better than me (more diplomatic and sweet than me a notorious kick-asser), helped with costumes, interviews... what a good discovered after 14 years together!
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pedals 4 pv
Platinum Member

Canada
1351 Posts

Posted - 10/14/2008 :  20:17:44  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
"Mon cheri, come with me to the Casbah"
(quoted from the famous romancer, Pepe LePew)
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silvertone6120
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USA
609 Posts

Posted - 10/14/2008 :  22:48:26  Show Profile  Visit silvertone6120's Homepage  Reply with Quote
My girlfriend and I have wrote 5 or 6 songs together...she's a great lyricist, although all of her material seems to be about mushy things like love, etc...go figure...

We've also sang a few duets together, and I did buy her a Baby Taylor for her birthday a few years ago...but unfortunately she stays too busy to do much with it.
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PaulH
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Posted - 10/14/2008 :  23:33:05  Show Profile  Visit PaulH's Homepage  Reply with Quote
My wife's in the band too... originally joined to play the bass, but does keyboards & recorders as well.
She's got loads more musical theory than me as well.
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